Making friends in college can be both exciting and a bit intimidating. As a former homeschooler, when I first came to PUC, it was my first time attending school since preschool and I was really nervous. Because I was coming from Georgia to California, I didn't know anyone and felt a bit lost. But, in the end, I had to take the initiative to get to know others. With this newfound knowledge, I wanted to share a few tips and tricks with any students who might be feeling lost or confused.
One of the best ways to meet new people is to attend campus events. I'm not sure if you have already done that, but if not, it's a great way to start. You could attend a sports game, hang out in the campus coffee shop, or participate in the events provided by the Student Association and Student Life. These events are specifically designed to help students socialize and get to know each other. Even though they can be corny or uninteresting, they are a great way to get to know other students.
Another great way to meet new people is to get to know your roommate. You'll be living with them for at least a quarter, so it's a good idea to get to know them and find common interests. In addition to the obvious benefits of becoming friends with your roommate, they may introduce you to people you wouldn't meet otherwise.
Joining a club or organization is also a great way to meet people who share similar interests. Whether you're into sports, music, or art, there's bound to be a club or organization on campus that aligns with your passions. You can have fun with your new friends while also participating in activities that you enjoy.
In addition to clubs and organizations, you can also meet people in your classes. Participating in group projects and attending class can help you meet people who are interested in the same subjects as you. You can exchange contact information and organize study groups outside of class.
Finally, don't forget about social media. It's a powerful tool to connect with others. Following accounts related to your interests or major can help you find people with similar passions. You can also use social media to organize meetups or events with other students. Remember, making friends takes time and effort, but it's worth it. Don't be afraid to step out of your comfort zone and try new things. With a little effort, you can make lasting connections and have a fulfilling college experience.
I'm rooting for you!
Marguerite :)
Marguerite!!!! I wish I saw this as a freshman!! As an introvert reading this, it was so helpful and the beginning made me more intrigued to read it. It drew me in because of your own personal experience with coming to a new school. I think people dont really take advantage of participating in group projects as seriously, most of the time they just do it for the grade, but as you mentioned its a great tool for making new friends! It’s funny how if you just push yourself enough to talk to someone new and take that chance they can end up becoming one of your closest friends! Awesome advice overall!
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