I remember when I first went away to college, I felt really homesick for the first month or so. I had a bad experience with my fusion group and back in my room, I quickly realized that my roommate and I were completely incompatible. Not only that but I was in a state across the country from my loved ones, my culture, and my mom's home-cooked meals.
Eventually, it got better. I made new friends, started cooking in my dorm room, and established a routine that made me feel more in control of my life. It took some time, but eventually, I started to feel more at home at college.
If you're feeling homesick, my advice to you would be to take some time to acknowledge your feelings. It's okay to feel sad or lonely when you're in a new place. It's a big adjustment, and it can be insanely overwhelming at times.
One thing that helped me when I was feeling homesick was staying in touch with my family and friends back home. With technology these days, it's easy to stay connected through video chat, social media, or even just a phone call. It was always nice to hear a familiar voice or see a friendly face, even if it was just through a screen.
Another thing that helped me, though I'll admit it was not entirely healthy was throwing myself into my studies and into situations where I could meet new people. It was difficult and at times I felt burnt out and extremely far from my comfort zone. However, these things gave me the distraction that I needed until I was able to find my footing at school.
At the same time though, I think it's worth saying that homesickness is not a problem you have to worry about fixing. It is a normal part of the college experience, and it's something that will likely get better with time. Just be patient with yourself, and try to enjoy your time in school as much as you can.
Homesickness may be tough, but it's just a temporary feeling. Before you know it, you'll start to feel more at home at college and create new memories and experiences to cherish.
Hang in there!
Marguerite :)
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